Teaming Up: Partnering with other Youth Ministries

In the past I was asked to be a part of a group of youth pastors, from the same denomination, who were to represent their churches and help plan a couple of youth events where students could fellowship with one another. It never happened. The goal was to have 3 to 4 gatherings a year, but after the first two it became apparent some were only interested in personal agendas. That experience left me frustrated and a little hurt. Even today to see those repeating the same mistake hurts me because the ones affected the most are the students. Instead of defining my outlook on fellowshipping with other churches that experience forced me to be wise when taking the opportunity into consideration. Here are some of my thoughts on the subject.

·        Its Fellowship not Marriage: Unless it’s part of your job description to fellowship with other churches remember it’s a voluntary thing. We all have calendars and events and it may not be beneficial to fellowship during certain times of the year. The purpose of fellowshipping with other Youth ministries should be student and leader fellowship not mandated programming.

·       Find like-minded youth pastors/workers: They may not necessarily be from your denomination, but who cares. Find those who have similar visions. Last year I received a call from a youth pastor whose church is in close proximity to ours. He was inviting our worship team and I to participate in a late night event they were having. At first I was a little bit hesitant because of the bad experiences I mentioned but, after talking on the phone with him for a while I could hear where his heart was and the vision he had for this event. Needless to say we had an amazing time and after speaking with the youth pastor and listening to him share his heart I was greatly humbled.

·       Combine and Conquer: This is especially advantageous for smaller groups. You can lower the cost of events when you team up with other youth ministries. Not only can it be cost effective, but teaming up for camps, conventions or other trips can be a great opportunity for students to fellowship with one another.

·       Be Picky: Students deserve it. As their leader it’s my responsibility to expose them to things that will benefit them spiritually and not discourage them. Teaming up with unorganized events or leadership can have a negative influence on students and our ministries reputation.